lickystickypickyme:

I wish people would just be honest. I have not always been a honest saint myself but have found out it is usually the best way. Not the easiest, but the best.

I understood the importance of this when people where dishonest to me. It stings in a way that is indescribable. And I am not talking the big crimes where by law you have to tell the truth. I am talking about everyday life. You don’t want to hang with me anymore? Have a formerly mutual friend and I gone our separate ways and you prefer  the other? That is your right. But then just say so. Don’t use silly excuses or vanish in thin air. It is immature and disrespectful I guess.

I find it very difficult to tell someone I just don’t feel like being (close) friends anymore. It makes me feel guilty for maybe hurting someone. But I guess I have been hurt much more when I thought I could call someone a friend but on the other end this was not the case. When you call but, calls are not returned, you mail but no reply. Yes you could “get the message”, but if no serious crisis was involved why not be as civil at the end as when it started?

I’ll make this my new resolution. I don’t need a new year for that.

unsolvedmysteries:

typewriterblues

Nice one! :)